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Q. How, when and where did the Natural Child
Project first get up and running and what/who is the
motivating/driving force?
My son Jason (age 19) and I joined the
Internet community in the fall of 1996, while we were living on
Vancouver Island, BC, Canada; we currently live on Salt Spring
Island, BC. In December of that year, we started a very small web
site with three of my newspaper columns and a little information
about my background.
In January 1997, Alice Miller kindly agreed
to add some of her articles to the web site. Dr. Miller and I had
corresponded since 1990, when she added my article "Ten
Reasons not to Hit Your Kids" as an appendix to her book Breaking
Down the Wall of Silence. After
adding the "Alice Miller Library",
we gradually added articles by other leading writers in the field,
as well as more of my own articles, and my "Parenting
Advice Column".
In the summer of 1997, we realized that the
web site was all about children, but that we had nothing for them
or by them, so Jason started the Global
Children's Art Gallery. The gallery has become extremely
popular internationally, and has been featured on CNN Headline
News, Canada AM TV, the "Yahoo Daily Pick", and
elsewhere. We currently have over 1,000 wonderful pictures by
children age 1 to 12 from many countries around the world.
Our motivating force is our conviction that
the early years of childhood are critical. We have posted this
mission statement on our home page:
Our vision is a world in which all
children are treated with dignity, respect, understanding, and
compassion. In such a world, every child can grow into adulthood
with a generous capacity for love and trust. Our society has no
more urgent task.
While we have been inspired by many authors
and thinkers in the field of attachment parenting, the La
Leche League has been the primary inspiration for our work.
Q. What type of information can one expect
to find at The Natural Child Project web site?
The site covers information and advice on
all aspects of "attachment parenting" (raising children
with respect and trust), unschooling (trusting the child to set
the "curriculum"), and child advocacy (including
documents from children's advocacy organizations around the
world). In the Table of Contents, articles are listed by author as
well as by topic. There is also a search engine for finding
specific subjects.
One of our most popular sections is the
"Parenting Site of the Month",
which honors web sites that provide critical information and
encouragement to parents. We also have the chapter "Common
Objections to Homeschooling" from John Holt's book Teach
Your Own, as well as an entire book, Whatever
Happened to Mother? A Primer For Those Who Care About Children,
by Dr. James Kimmel.
We recently added a new section, "Attachment
Parenting Research", to report on current scientific
studies that confirm the long-term benefits of extended
breastfeeding, family co-sleeping, responsiveness to crying, and
other aspects of attachment parenting.
Q. What are the main objectives of the
project?
Our objective is to help parents understand
the critical importance of the earliest years of childhood, and to
provide the kinds of information and encouraging support they need
to treat their children with unconditional love and respect.
Q. Tell us the general response from those
who come in contact with your web site.
We have been overwhelmed with the
enthusiastic response from the public. The site currently receives
over 250,000 page access per month [current figure], and has been given
over 200 awards. But what we have most appreciated are the many
hundreds of profoundly moving letters
from parents, telling us how helpful our site has been for them.
Here are two such letters:
"This phenomenal web site
contains, for me, the most treasured and valued sharing of ideas
and information that I have received on child raising
ever." - K.L.
"Your respect for children and
their feelings really came through and was just what I needed to
hear after a difficult week." - L.C.
It is impossible to put into words how
motivating and inspiring such exceptional feedback has been for
our continued work. |